“Pearls of Wisdom Series 3: How to achieve a g-spot orgasm”

So you’re looking to spice up your love life. Maybe you’re single and want to know a better way to masturbate. If you’re like the many women out there who feel the need to “O”, but can’t achieve it, here are some easy steps to follow to achieve sexual pleasure. Keep in mind every woman is unique and time will vary depending on your anatomy and health status.

Step 1: Get comfortable.

This might take a while so you need to have your back and head supported and enough room to spread open your legs.

Step 2: Get aroused.

You can watch your favorite adult movie or create a fantasy in your head; even eat your favorite aphrodisiac, whatever it takes to get you in the mood.

Step 3: Lay down and spread open your legs.

They can be up in the air, on the bed, or limp.

Step 4: Stimulate your clitoris.

This perhaps is the most important step. Your clitoris is that little bulb of flesh above you urethra. It is located in the top part of your external genitalia. Make sure to keep from climaxing when stimulating the clitoris so you can stay aroused. You can achieve this by rubbing it indirectly through the sides and beneath. Rubbing the vaginal opening also helps. The reason you’ll need to do this step is because the more stimulated the clitoris is, the more raised the g-spot in the vagina will be. Once raised, the g-spot will be easier to find and stimulate.

Step 5: After about 5 minutes of self petting, stick your right index and middle finger into your vagina. Keep your hand in a “come hither” posture so your fingers are right on the g-spot. Keep moving the fingers on the g-spot for a good 10 minutes. You can place your thumb or other hand on your clitoris to help with the continual arousal. In no time you should feel a sort of heat inside your body and a tensing of the muscles. Soon you’ll reach climax and just maybe squirt a little. Don’t be alarmed, squirting is natural and comes from the urethra. You’ll feel an urge to urinate and that’s normal. The liquid that comes out is not urine.

Step 6: Congratulations, you got a g-spot orgasm. Feel proud of yourself and rejoice in knowing you can take care of your sexual needs. Now go to sleep or go about your day. Don’t forget to spread the word so other women can feel the joy of climax.

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Article written by: Rosemary Jasmine Rivera